This topic has been on-going for years, as we all know females are very complicated. many guys don't seem to understand the reasons why ladies refuse to approach them.
Having grown up in an environment filled with ladies I know much about them and I came up with this thread
1) shyness
This is a part of many reasons why ladies find it hard to approach guys that lack confidence and when they eventually get the boldness to approach they guy of their dreams they get the cold feet.
2). Arrogance
Some ladies are just so arrogant and full of themselves they can't seem to reckon with the idea of approaching a guy they have instilled the idea that guys alone should approach a lady and not otherwise. i don't know where they got it from though.
3). Fear of rejection
Even we the guys fear rejection talkmore of the ladies, most ladies are afraid of rejection this sometimes can be a psychological problem both to the guys and the ladies.
The key to this is boldness and nothing else.
4). Fear of being ridiculed
It is a known fact to all that guys tend to be childish in cases like this, some guys even go as far as to tell all the guys in their department by so doing ridiculing the lady.[/
5). Respect
Some ladies believe that when they approach a guy, the guy automatically looses respect for the lady and tend to treat her like cabbage.
In the end, it takes a very smart lady to approach a guy first. i am not saying the ones that don't are not smart. Guys are complicated too.
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